Accepting the things I chose not to change, (after assessment of the resources I need to put in to make change, the odds of
the worst scenario may happen and the impact how it may affect my life, if my worry happens), because my valuable resources
could be better used for other things.
Accepting the things I fail to change, after I have done my best.
Signs and symptoms:
If I am fighting, I haven't accepted it.
If it creeps into my mind, when I am in bed or other times, I haven't accepted it.
If I am still asking "why this happens to me" or "why did he do that", I haven't accepted it.
How's:
Accepting is to start living the life like the worst scenario has happened. Sounds depressing and negative...
What's next, after accepting?
In the worse case scenario that will happen, make the most of what I still have to enrich my life and move on.
Move on. Life won't move on without first accepting.
Accepting things requires extraordinary strength. Accepting things make us stronger, strong like an ocean that can take all the river infusion without being disturbed.
