I heard a person commenting her Alzheimer's relative that have brought 
great burden to the family... "He is not the same" . I smelled some 
sense of half sentence to be completed with "he is not the same person I
 liked."
We like to be liked. Even Alzheimer's patients.
He doesn't want to be disliked either except that his disease controls who he is.
Do
 you have such forced-to-be angry and demanding relatives that used to 
be nice? How do we accept and love this angry person as he is now?
